this is what you should never ask your partner
There are certain things in relationships to avoid that the love does not end and there are no conflicts between people. Beyond the attitudes, behaviors, there are some questions you should never give your partner, or at least not with that intention, if you intend that the love between you is entertaining and suffers no setbacks.
1. "Do you still remember your ex?"
This is the worst thing you could ask. If you question if you remember your ex is better than not ask, it is clear that you feel bothered or surprised by your question. Feel safe for some reason is you, so it's best that you forget your past and you continue living in the present to have a good future. Moreover, his former partner is no longer present, for something called "ex".
Unless he gives you signs that remember, do not do it, and if not, better find someone who can fully thinking about you.
2. "What's the matter?"
You can always be concerned about what happens to your partner, but there are appropriate ways to know what's wrong, and others not. For example, say directly, "what's wrong?" With a slightly impatient tone can cause absence of any response from your partner, it will not want to tell you if you have that attitude. It's the same with you, if you ask so little direct and empathetic, you also want to respond. He prefers ask nicely, it's better.
3. "I'm better than that person?"
Nobody likes to be compared, and unless you cause your partner should compare you with someone else, it's the worst. In addition, it is likely to be disturbed by the question, or you get angry you with the answer.
4. "Why do not you try harder?"
There are times when you just want to relax, or do not have sufficient desire to do something. If you want your partner to do something for you or help you, ever tell him work harder because you'll do note that just is not doing anything. Instead I prefer to say directly "I would like you to help me in" is better. Besides, you would not like to tell you that you do not try, right?
1. "Do you still remember your ex?"
This is the worst thing you could ask. If you question if you remember your ex is better than not ask, it is clear that you feel bothered or surprised by your question. Feel safe for some reason is you, so it's best that you forget your past and you continue living in the present to have a good future. Moreover, his former partner is no longer present, for something called "ex".
Unless he gives you signs that remember, do not do it, and if not, better find someone who can fully thinking about you.
2. "What's the matter?"
You can always be concerned about what happens to your partner, but there are appropriate ways to know what's wrong, and others not. For example, say directly, "what's wrong?" With a slightly impatient tone can cause absence of any response from your partner, it will not want to tell you if you have that attitude. It's the same with you, if you ask so little direct and empathetic, you also want to respond. He prefers ask nicely, it's better.
3. "I'm better than that person?"
Nobody likes to be compared, and unless you cause your partner should compare you with someone else, it's the worst. In addition, it is likely to be disturbed by the question, or you get angry you with the answer.
4. "Why do not you try harder?"
There are times when you just want to relax, or do not have sufficient desire to do something. If you want your partner to do something for you or help you, ever tell him work harder because you'll do note that just is not doing anything. Instead I prefer to say directly "I would like you to help me in" is better. Besides, you would not like to tell you that you do not try, right?
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